My mother turns 50 years young today.
She is really an amazing person. She selflessly postponed her early ambitions for a career in forestry to give her time and energy in caring for and nurturing six children. I know from my own two kids how hard it is to even stay sane with little ones in the house, let alone be a positive force in their lives. Somehow she had the strength to not only keep us all alive and kicking, but she also taught us many valuable lessons - things I still use every day in my adult life.
My mom, always the industrious woman not only taught us the basics like how to cook, clean, and sew - things everyone really should know - but also things like carpentry and animal husbandry (we lived on a small ranch for about ten years or so.) She also engendered within us a love for writing and art and other forms of creativity.
Through all the years I can not recall a single time my mom fought with my dad in front of us, squandered our family resources selfishly or belittled her children... things that (if you believe the television and media) seem all too common in family relations today. Instead she constantly encouraged us and expressed her love and pride in us, even when we let her down from time to time. I wish I could honestly say the same things about myself!
Even after her children have pretty much all left the nest, my mom continues to amaze me. Even with the pains of Fibromyalgia she's still continued her education, worked as a traveling notary public, written and published children's books and novels. She's very web savvy with her own website, blog, and profile on LinkedIn. Even with her last child close to college and "freedom" close at hand, she still insisted on stepping up and bringing her aging parents into her home to give them the care they needed.
I am not a good enough writer to really do her justice, but in writing this tribute to my mom today I really just wanted to say how much I love my mom and wish her a very Happy Birthday!