What's frustrating about this blog is the restrictions I often feel when posting. I can't really talk about what's really interesting to me, for example, without wondering if someone at work is reading it too and thinking I have too much free time on my hands. :)
Speaking of work, I'd also like to talk about the accomplishments I've been making there. But then, I don't really know what is "secret" information and what is "safe" for dissemination. So that's usually off limits too.
Another restriction I feel is on my desire to air out my daily stress. Unfortunately, writing out the things that rip at my heart and psyche is just likely to cause additional negative affects. So the question I have is where do you vent? If someone is continuously antagonistic towards you, purposely or not, or if you feel alone or without friends, where do you say so and get it off your chest? If someone snubs your opinion at every turn, where do you push back to stop it? If you feel like life events are a heavy burden, where can you put it down and rest for a moment?
My personality is to confront and try to work things out directly. If I feel a person is unhappy with me, frustrated, or even disdainful, I will try to call them out on it and patch it up. Unfortunately, that seems to only work half the time, with other results being either no change at all or simply making things worse. Besides, in many cases things have no clear "other person" to confront.
I suppose there is no one answer to these things. Once upon a time, long ago, I would write poetry and even novels (I think I mentioned once here in my blog that the name "Renanse" came from one of those novels?) to explore and vet my thoughts. Maybe I need to get back to doing it that way...